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To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven
- Ecclesiastes 3:1
- Ecclesiastes 3:1
"Please God, let her say yes." I quietly prayed as I picked up the phone and punched in the numbers. After having a crush for probably 8 years, I was finally calling to ask out the most amazing, intelligent, and beautiful girl I knew.
As the phone rang, the times the two of had shared ran through my head; times where we had played in the church, working community events, you name it. We always somehow found each other (or at least I found her)... and then I knew that it had to be God's will. He had to mean for us to be together. (1 Corinthians 3:19)
Built with confidence I asked the tough question, "Will you go out with me?" Ready to thank her before she even replied, I was left half speechless when she simply said, "No." And after hanging up the phone, I did what every 16 year old teenager would after being turned down; I went outside to play catch in a thunderstorm- hoping to be struck by lighting just so I could ask God, "Why? Didn't you listen to anything I've said these last 8 years?"
It is times like that, I wish we could see into the future. Times where we have no understanding of what God is doing, and wonder if He even knows. And we are met with the same answer every time, "Have faith, be patient, it will all work out." Something that isn't easily done. (Proverbs 3:5-6)
However, many years later, I do understand. Looking back, that relationship would have never worked. Looking at us today, our life goals, our ideas, even our personalities are completely different. And instead, God put someone else in my life, a woman who is more amazing, and more beautiful than I could have ever imagined. A woman who makes me a better man, a better Christian. All along, despite my 8 year crush, and my own desires, God had the perfect woman just waiting for me. Waiting for me, to wait on Him.
Today, what are you asking God for, and not getting? It's frustrating to not know what God has in plan, but will you have faith, and put trust in Him, that He does have something even better than you can imagine, just waiting for you... Are you willing to have faith, and wait on His plan and His timing? (1 Corinthians 1:25)
On April 08, 2013 by guest
It is tough, but His way is ALWAYS the best way...its just the waiting that's difficult.
It is tough, but His way is ALWAYS the best way...its just the waiting that's difficult.
On March 24, 2013 by john eglington
Having reconnected with my childhood sweetheart i really thought God had put us together,since we broke up i have prayed evert day for a break through,,the enemy can be very active in our personal lives and will do every thing to try and destroy us,,i
Having reconnected with my childhood sweetheart i really thought God had put us together,since we broke up i have prayed evert day for a break through,,the enemy can be very active in our personal lives and will do every thing to try and destroy us,,i
On June 17, 2012 by marykate
I struggle with this. ive been praying for a sign from god or ANYTHING to let me know hes up there watching over me ! but i get nothing everytime Reply I promise God is listening, but the timing may not be right, or He may have something He wants you to learn. I know things do not always make sense, but trust Him, and more importantly be willing to accept His will (often times what we want is not what's best for us). You will be in my prayers. God Bless
I struggle with this. ive been praying for a sign from god or ANYTHING to let me know hes up there watching over me ! but i get nothing everytime Reply I promise God is listening, but the timing may not be right, or He may have something He wants you to learn. I know things do not always make sense, but trust Him, and more importantly be willing to accept His will (often times what we want is not what's best for us). You will be in my prayers. God Bless
On May 04, 2012 by Bernadette
This helped so much. I'm still not sure if God wants me to be with this boy or not, but I guess we'll find out soon!
This helped so much. I'm still not sure if God wants me to be with this boy or not, but I guess we'll find out soon!
On September 30, 2010 by vanessa irvin
I thank God for this msg. and theese comments, for you see i prayed and ask god to send me who he wanted and i know in my heart that he sent this man to me but satan is trying to block what god has for me, i was giving up because i thought god did not hear my prayer and today reading you msg. i am going to wait on him so thanks you
I thank God for this msg. and theese comments, for you see i prayed and ask god to send me who he wanted and i know in my heart that he sent this man to me but satan is trying to block what god has for me, i was giving up because i thought god did not hear my prayer and today reading you msg. i am going to wait on him so thanks you
On July 20, 2010 by caitlin
I really needed to read this because that's what i am feeling...but i havent told the guy i like that i like him because he is a good friend and i dont want to ruin it between us with a crush or make things weird between us...i just wish i could tell him how i feel but i cant get the courage up to tell him that i like him..its been over 1 year since i started to like him...
I really needed to read this because that's what i am feeling...but i havent told the guy i like that i like him because he is a good friend and i dont want to ruin it between us with a crush or make things weird between us...i just wish i could tell him how i feel but i cant get the courage up to tell him that i like him..its been over 1 year since i started to like him...
On January 13, 2010 by L
Not sure what God has instore for me at this moment but my heart was recently broken by someone dearly and he has all these excuses and this devotion is just inspiration to me to just let God have control of my life and see where he is taking me. This person just may need time and space to sort out his life...not sure....but there have been things to say otherwise that he has moved on....so if he has...it hurts but I wish him all the happiness in the world. I felt like our love was one that was special and that maybe God did put us together but maybe it was for that time in life and for me to take what I had and learn from it but to keep my eyes focused on God and his direction.
Not sure what God has instore for me at this moment but my heart was recently broken by someone dearly and he has all these excuses and this devotion is just inspiration to me to just let God have control of my life and see where he is taking me. This person just may need time and space to sort out his life...not sure....but there have been things to say otherwise that he has moved on....so if he has...it hurts but I wish him all the happiness in the world. I felt like our love was one that was special and that maybe God did put us together but maybe it was for that time in life and for me to take what I had and learn from it but to keep my eyes focused on God and his direction.
On September 14, 2008 by Guest
Wow! Just what I needed today. Thanks.
Wow! Just what I needed today. Thanks.
On September 13, 2008 by Grumpy Ape
Yes, reminders that we do NOT know it all, help to keep us a little more balanced. I used to wonder why I didn't have a husband, after a few years gave up and decided I wasn't ever going to get married. Well, it has been 29 years since I made that decision. I have now been married for 25 years to a man that I knew for 1 month before getting married. I do not regret a day. Thank You Daddy God, Your wisdom and loving kindness is AWESOME !!
Yes, reminders that we do NOT know it all, help to keep us a little more balanced. I used to wonder why I didn't have a husband, after a few years gave up and decided I wasn't ever going to get married. Well, it has been 29 years since I made that decision. I have now been married for 25 years to a man that I knew for 1 month before getting married. I do not regret a day. Thank You Daddy God, Your wisdom and loving kindness is AWESOME !!
On September 12, 2008 by Sarah Jane
I had a very similar situation as a young adult. I was crushed! Surely God had heard all of my prayers, had made our paths cross more than a dozen times- right? But the man i eventually married is such a better match for me, such a more loving and accepting and affectionate person... BUt even after this confirmation of God's divine providence and love for me, when prayers are not immediately answered now i sometimes throw up my hands and wonder where i went wrong! Thanks for the humble reminder to wait on His providence- i needed that!
I had a very similar situation as a young adult. I was crushed! Surely God had heard all of my prayers, had made our paths cross more than a dozen times- right? But the man i eventually married is such a better match for me, such a more loving and accepting and affectionate person... BUt even after this confirmation of God's divine providence and love for me, when prayers are not immediately answered now i sometimes throw up my hands and wonder where i went wrong! Thanks for the humble reminder to wait on His providence- i needed that!
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1 Corinthians 3:19
[19] For the wisdom of this world is foolishness with God. For it is written, He taketh the wise in their own craftiness.
Proverbs 3:5-6
[5] Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. [6] In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.
1 Corinthians 1:25
[25] Because the foolishness of God is wiser than men; and the weakness of God is stronger than men.